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Paige's avatar

Food on face > face is food haha

Thank you for being normal and putting food on your face, and suggesting that this could be a normal thing other people can do if they want to, too.

A very long rant incoming- apologies and ty in advance haha:

Not what this is about, but it’s bringing up for me how I always find it baffling how people on the internet and beauty journalists fear monger over homemade skin products, often with a tone of condescension. A similar thing happens with reproductive self-help and and any sort of herbal/folk remedy.

They’ll be like “haha you think some little plants can do something? They’re ineffective and won’t do anything! But omg herbs are DANGEROUS! HEMLOCK IS A PLANT!!!! You should NEVER touch a PLANT!!!” Lol meanwhile popping NSAIDS like candy and conveniently forgetting the stimulant effects of extracted bean juice (coffee) and down-regulating effect hops (beer--- side note I think it’s the hops that cause beer-poops, I’ve just realized this and wanted to share).

Or like “you think a little STEAM can affect your UTERUS? It does nothing! But ITS SO DANGEROUS NEVER LET STEAM NEAR YOU”

Or fear mongering about sex toys made of like, jade or quartz, meanwhile gross boys have been sticking grubby fingers up there from the beginning of time. Poor quality sex toys that off-gas and degrade in your body are also implicitly A-OK.

Tangent- I once had a (female) urologist shame me for seeking care from a Sexological Bodyworker when I developed interstitial cystitis (which I have healed from thank God) since nothing conventional was helping, claiming that this modality could cause my harm. Like bro, we did genital mapping she brought still touch to various locations on my genitals for me to somatically register the sensation and build that good mind-body connection. But yeah anything some guy wants to do with his dick is fine and no warnings needed and no harm could ever come to the pelvic door this way.

Finally, with the homemade skin products. About once every year or two there’s a wave of articles and podcast episodes about how it’s so dangerous to make face masks out of food because you can get an infection or something? Or irritation? Not sure what the warning ever is haha. Like sure if you’re putting ACV and lemon juice mixed with a rotting avocado and pasteurized milk you’ve left out of the fridge on your face it will probably mess you up. But imagine being like “NEVER PUT YOGURT ON YOUR SKIN” lmao what????? Is it ineffective or the most dangerous thing ever??? Lmao. It would be better to educate readers/listeners about best practices and what to avoid.

Meanwhile, repeat PEG exposure is definitely okay, even though this creates anti-PEG antibodies which at a certain level can cause PEG allergy which causes allergies to anything processed with PEGs including processed foods, cosmetics and some drugs.

This is obviously about money and giving our power (and money) over to other people who have an interest in this, but i will get off my soap box now lol.

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

I would also add to milk's association “with youth, since that is what we drink as babies and children...and youth will always be an attractive concept in beauty.” I can't help but wonder if we also imagine women with firm, full breasts of milking age (ie: fertile, abundant, beautiful, forthcoming) when we think of milk's value.

I also relished your take on jojoba oil. I often come here and think "but surely some products work!" because, hey, when I have dry skin on my hands, cream HELPS. So what products that are closest to their original form/ least adulterated for profit are actually worth having in our bathrooms? I'm sure you've done a post like that, which I've missed. But I'd love to see it re-pub'd.

Finally, a doctor named Icecreamwala is the ONLY expert who should tell us anything about milky skincare products in August.

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