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Drew's avatar

You, but better. The idea that you are competing with a version of you which exists out there already, ready to replace you and take all your opportunities for happiness as their own. And that maybe, if you buy the right products, and flawlessly perform 'being fun, but not in a fake way', you can defeat that doppelganger by becoming her ... Pretty much sums up the sisyphean anguish of being a woman.

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Great interview that brought up so many thoughts and memories! The nothingness of it all is what I find so fascinating about Glossier and about my own relationship with beauty. I was a tom boy/ "cool girl" all through high school and college. I was able to skirt by on perfect skin (ah how I miss youth and being able to take birth control pills without debilitating migraines) and a bit of mascara. I then hit the corporate world where performing beauty was a form of "professionalism" I felt I needed. Glossier arrived at the perfect moment (2 years into my working life). I felt like I could put on "skin tint" or brush my brows and suddenly I had put in the effort of a "working woman" while still feeling like myself. It gave me a twisted and comforting feeling that I had checked the boxes of adult womanhood while also conveniently escaping the trap of superficial vanity. It's GENIUS marketing because as you mention, the products are shit. But when you don't want products at all and only are using them for emotional reasons, shit is fine. When I think back to my early working days, I had such an extreme need to fit in. Seeing a tube of Balm Dot Com on a smart savvy co-worker's desk was comforting and reassuring in an actually meaningful way. And I work in a male dominated industry so girly bonding was desperately needed. In some ways, I feel like being sold nothing but the cult-y side of beauty (feeling of belonging, superiority, "knowledge") was actually better for me than being sold a product that actually worked? Much to consider. And thank God for personal growth and your work so I look back on my silly thoughts with some new perspective!

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