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I don’t think there are even words to explain how deeply this made me feel seen and not crazy. The intense pressure to keep up with these non-realistic standards of female beauty living in a place like NYC [and now LA] have deeply damaged my self worth and I’m trying to get out of that pit of despair. Maybe I’m not alone?

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Apr 12, 2022Liked by Jessica DeFino

Jessica, I hope you never doubt or underestimate the fact that the work you do is important and necessary. I also hope that your work will continue to be published at big outlets like this! Thank you for being fearless and unrelenting in your conviction.

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Apr 13, 2022Liked by Jessica DeFino

Absolutely awesome article, Jessica...❤️ The work you are doing is so important .. Your words are always truthful and inspiring... you are helping so many people by having the guts to stand up to the beauty industry and tell the TRUTH, as well as being a wonderful role model for future generations... You are actually changing mindsets, and changing lives ..

Keep up the good work! 👍💕

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Apr 12, 2022Liked by Jessica DeFino

I read your email this morning and the full piece in VICE just now and JESSICA! This is SO, SO good! It seriously choked me up to think about how brave you are to speak truth to power like this. Thank you for writing this.

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Apr 13, 2022Liked by Jessica DeFino

Thank you for sharing this 💛 You are brave and powerful 💫

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I appreciate you & your work so much! Thank you for putting this perspective & thought into words. 🤗

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YES!

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BRILLIANT.

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Do you need a part time research assistant? I want to work with you so you can write as much as possible, for real.

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I am soooo so so so happy I found my way to your work. It was like omg I’m not the only one feeling this pressure and for what? And as a side note, god damn if my face has not completely LOVED Manuka honey! I’m obsessed with your work and thank you for all you do!

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